Is there such a thing as a “good” divorce? Like a lot of things in life, it depends on how you define it. One couple might decide that “good” means resolved as quickly as possible. Another might prefer the chance to hash out a few key issues with a neutral party. And believe it or not, there are some people who just want to have their day in court. They’re willing to let a judge decide the major issues in their lives in the hopes of somehow getting a decision that they think they deserve, but were unable to attain through direct negotiations with their spouse or indirectly through their attorneys.
Litigation to some is the only option. Especially if the one asking for divorce had the affair. Ironically, men don't have that ability to fight for more custody, so in that case I 100 percent stand by the lawyer that protected me. It is heartbreaking when you wake up one day and a person can take your kids away from you saying goodnight every night to only half the time now. Thanks for sharing!